And then it happens…One day you wake up and you’re in this place, in this place where everything feels right. Surrounded by farewell cards, flowers and gifts from colleagues, kleenex because of a little extra farewell flu gift from work, lots of coffee, silence and sleeping children and cat. Sunny and warm easter weather. My heart at peace, calm and feeling aligned with my soul. Being my own boss again, following my own inner voice, heading towards a journey where I only see a few steps in front of me. Starting over has happened several times and its like what I did yesterday, last week, last month and last year doesnt define me. Feeling grateful for the opportunity to learn and share my own wisdom. There is no life B, this is me giving myself a life A chance, and I know failing is part of the journey, but I also know catching my own dreams is so fulfilling. It will be fast, slow and soft living.
Wednesday late evening we went out, me and my girls and celebrated my new life with so much laughter with an icelandic comedian Ari Eldjárn (you can watch him on Netflix, “Pardon my icelandic”). I love people who makes me laugh, I love a lot in life, but laughter is one of the best things in a person, its like turning happy ON. And laughter is part of this new journey, doing what makes me happy.
Offering energyhealing, mediumship, psychic and spiritual assessment sessions will be part of my journey, read more on my page inualife.com, but I will also pursue more writing and use my creative background in different projects I have been dreaming about for years. I look forward to share more of myself and my becoming journey.
This blog actually started in 2011 as my little freetime in a very busy dailylife as a fulltime singlemother, with fulltime work and a lot of designprojects in my own company next to my work, which was very busy. My blog Aviajaspace as the name say was my space and time in the evening, after I had put my small children to sleep, a time where I could inspire myself and others with my interest’ without leaving home, an hour or two where I were connecting with parts I missed in my life and myself. It was so helpful and I have really enjoyed all those hours of writing.
What were my interest’ in the start?
Creativity, design, jazzmusic, writing poetry, colors, food and cooking, Greenland (part of my culture), art, meditation, needlework, nature, photos and probably other things I have forgotten about since I have changed over the years and my interest’ have changed or should I say deepened. Because a lot of the interest’ mentioned above are still the same, some are just more prominent in my life. If you have asked me 13 years ago what I would spend my time with in 2024, I don’t think I would have answered taking another round with being my own boss without safety net, facing a lot of fear and establishing courage to create my third career in my life (my first career was within tourism, second design and now being a spiritual advisor).
The past four years after we moved to Denmark from Greenland have been a very transformative period, going from a very busy life as a professional interiordesigner, living in a lovely house with a stunning view over the ocean, being blessed with highend clients within the corporate world, earning a good amount of money and in many ways being very succesful.
I was supposed to be where I was those years, in my favourite country, Greenland, with my favourite people, my children and creating a lot of beautiful good design, through a period of time where me and my family needed stability and was rooted one place. But I am a nomad of heart or just not able to settle one place.
I remember the change, the pull towards wanting to change my world, trying something new, without not really knowing my new path. And I know myself, when that pull starts, its like a rolling snowball at the top of the hill, growing bigger and moving faster, until I have to take action on it or life will create circumstances that push me to change my world. This time I took action.
One night November 2018 where I couldnt sleep I re-read a book by the healer Alberto Villoldo, I dont even remember the title, I just knew that I had to check him out. At his homepage I saw he had a month long residential program in California starting February 2018, and it felt so right for me, that I in that moment decided to manifest the conditions for me to participate the programme. (manifesting enough money for the very expensive program, travels for me and my family, living expences for 3 months where I was not working, nearly 5 weeks of programme, 4 weeks of holiday with my children and another month where I was back and working to earn money, and then of course finding someone who would live with my children for a short amount of time before they were travelling themselves to different destinations and eventually meeting up with me in Denmark).
What a logistic, what a manifestation, nevertheless I was pretty consistent in my thought about it becoming my reality. And a couple of weeks after this decision I recieved some business calls with two HUGE designprojects which had to be done immediately, which meant I could raise the cost’ and the money were covering those 3 months ahead.
That was the start of my big transformational period, ending my design career, moving country, starting a new career as a spiritual advisor and of course helping my two girls to integrate themselves in another culture in some important years being teenagers.
Looking back at the past four years, I must admit Im glad I didnt know what was laying ahead, then I am pretty sure I havent thrown myself and my girls on our turbulent quest.
Me on my quest, “The Fool” from the tarotdeck The good karma Tarot by Kerry Ward
Four years of rocky roads, a lot of moving, change of direction, so little money, Covid time (which we all know was about), feeling soooo lost, digging deep and trying to understand that change of identity is a big loss of yourself for a period of time before you find a new identity or are able to accept and live with different circumstances you havent imagined.
The four years has also been a course in a non-linear journey, letting go of all I have know and how to percieve life, in listening to my inner voice, meeting new people and creating a new network out in the big world, walking new spiritual pathways, besides my healing, adding psychic, mediumship and spiritual assessment to my services.
Trust have been a big part of my journey and probably the most difficult one for me because I have tried to view my life from the old way of thinking and living. I have felt stepping backwards more than forward, rollercoaster after rollercoaster of expansion and contraction, trust and fears at once, anchoring my soul my light and allowing it more and more next to so many shadows and old stuff rising.
So besides feeling low and lost in many periods, it has been and is actually a steady stream of my soul nudging me towards my new direction and a lot of unknown and uncertainty. The part where you have to lean more and more in to uncertainty and meanwhile becoming yourself has for me been a very exciting journey, much needed and a huge lesson in surrendering.
In 7 weeks Im having a blank sheet in front of me, no outside boss, no income, a lot of ideas and intentions about what to create and start and at the same time some inner work letting go of control, trusting that my soul have helped me to this moment.
From our livingroom, some snow, a helping orb and light above us, my process for the moment. Video made by my eldest daughter Anouk.
Rain and more rain, sun in between, long hair cut off, sweet happy big daughter shining at her school, withering tulips in the evening light, reading so many books, one with Ramana Maharshi, a lot of meditation, does anyone want some of our tomatoplants, big decisions taken about life another move, green everywhere, some are travelling above us, first berries, berries to come in the garden, started my yearlong mediumship programme with Mavis Pittilla and her team, so much inner work, soft and vulnerable, simple for the moment….
I always loved food, taste new things, experiment, create recipies, I can taste the ingredients in my head, and lately have I been doing a lot of food tv at my Inualife page. Not that I intend to become a chef, more just sharing all the love for new favourite recipies, tastes and the beauty of the food.
This morning my daughter Anouk made a lovely green smoothie, which she makes every morning at her Højskole/kind of bording school, this is not a sweet smoothie, but a very lovely green smoothie, today topped with my homemade granola. The smoothie is made of spinach, celery, cucumber, lemon, ginger and grinded flaxseeds.
Our morning Green smoothieYesterdays dinnerHome baked breadKalechips with lemon and parmesan
This early morning I spotted one little basilika sprout after we have been putting the seeds in the soil a week ago.
I was thrilled to experience the first of many small new plants and with a happy feeling inside I sat and did my morning meditation. After my meditation and some reading I looked at the little sprout again and in the meantime 4 other small sprouts have showed up. Wow, all this amazing lifeenergy right in front of me, waiting, waiting, waiting and suddenly something happens.
You know how it is to plant seeds, it is so exiting that you look at the soil several visits a day.
It made me think about how we plant seeds in life and see them come up as new people in our life, having new experiences, walking new paths, discovering new inner parts of ourselves or gets closer to our own true nature.
For the moment I really use my outer life as a mirror of my inner life. Whenever I am aware of my own thoughts, emotions, likes and dislikes and preferences I try to be aware of them instead of letting them identify me and my life. The proces is interesting and quite valuable and help me to be aware of how attached I am to certain thought patterns, roles I play out in my life, victimhood (which not only have to do with the bigger issues of life, childhood and relationships), but also the little victimhood in dailylife; “It is raining – it should be sunshine today”, you know let go of thoughts arising from control, painful experiences/memories and thoughts…and just be in the moment. How much do we allow ourself to be in the present moment, let me put it in another way, how aware are we of our own thoughts, emotions and patterns – detach from them and be able to be in the present moment. Being the seer, being the one aware of our own emotions, creating space in between the thought and who we are.
I love the proces and have been on this path for many years. For years I thought my own selfrealisation only could be met by a lot of meditation and retreats. But with time I have realised that the ongoing work of morexand more becoming my inner self, or peeling of all the conditioned layers comes and goes in cycles. You get aware of something in yourself, again and again and again, each time you get deeper within and let go of new layers which doesnt serve you and you strenghten your connection with your inner being.
The outside world is a very helpful mirror in this proces, how does life trigger you?! Weather, traffic, work, relationships, family…so many areas can trigger our own unsolved parts…if we are neutral about life (most of us dont question we have electricity, water, the sun is rising, the road outside etc.), but the areas where the outside starts an inner reaction, is the path, the opportunity to let go of our own layers, blocked energy from past experiences which havent been felt, dealt with in the moment, and now are captured inside of us, and keeps repeating itself until we are aware of the pattern, and until its detached it is hindering us from being our true nature – a soul.
So that was what the small sprouts was kickstarting of thoughts. Enjoy your sunday.
A dear new friend of mine – talented writer, poet and dancer Michiru Adriene shared this sacred beautiful conscious art short film…by Alexandra Feldner – what a gift to recieve.
Connect with all aspects of yourself – Be a gift …..
I am quite flexible timewise concerning those of you living in other timezones – United States and Asia and other lovely places in our beautiful world – I can easily offer mediumship in my evenings and mornings so it fits you in your daily life.
As a medium I do my best to connect and communicate with your loved ones on the other side of the veil – so you experience and feel it yourself – evidence is of course an important part of the sitting, but also from time to time advices for you and a great deal of healing.
Having a sitting can be an experience of joy, humour, connecting with long forgotten memories, new information, forgiveness and healing but most of all connecting with your loved ones on the other side of the veil is a knowing that they always is around and wants us to feel their presence, signs and love ❤️
I look forward to meet you and communicate with your loved ones ✨
Love Aviâja, Energymedicine healer and Healthcoach Medium and Clairvoyant Professional interiordesigner
Those of you from everywhere 🙏🏻 I already have met and given a sitting – I look forward to connect again.
Besides mediumship I also offer Energymedicine healing, clairvoyance and other modalities and of course all kind of design – especially within design.
Have a look at my page – there is a lot of soul stuff and of course most of my own photos. ❤️ Aviâja
After months of lockdown we have taken some days with my old father and my eldest nephew in Copenhagen. It has been so lovely to be with family and gives us encouragement to continue the extended lockdown period with a more positive spirit. Days with walks, a lot of nice food, laughter, playing games, talks, helping my father with different things and of course sharing memories.
My eldest daughter have for christmas made a greenlandic version of the game monopoly for her littlesister. It took her months, with all the drawings, questions related to Greenland and greenlandic society and creating the whole game. That game has been played SO much the last couple of days, and have strenghten the bond between the cousins. It has been hours filled with joy.
The photos are from earlier today when we took the train home (it takes about 4 hours from our home to my father, Copenhagen – Aarhus) and I love when we pass the huge bridge “Storebæltsbroen”, which actual both is a bridge and a tunnel – leaving one part of Denmark to another. And then the weather has been so beautiful the last days and minus 12,7 this morning, actually cold in Denmark.
We were actually at the beach today but forgot to take photos – the weather is so warm in Aarhus – so having some hours in the sun, relaxing and having short dips in the water was good for the soul after half year of being busy…doing absolutely nothing besides finding nice stones with wholes – talking a little, looking at the animals… listening to the ocean –
On our way home we walked in the forest next to the ocean, that was healing and inspiring – the light – the beautiful glimses of the ocean – the wonderful landscape of our local forest Marselisborg and felt so lucky and thankful to live this beautiful and peaceful place –
My girls took some photos on our way home – eating a little berries …
And bringing home fresh melting water in waterbottles, the best water in the world!
So lovely to take a break/pause in the busy projectperiod and feel the mountains, air, smell, feeling the warm sun and hearing the birds…and of course spending time with my girls…
From having like snowstorms every week in april this month – May have been very warm and in a week all the snow more or less dissapeared…Such a huge contrast.
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