Joy comes to us in moments

Georg Riedel on bas with Jonas Östholm on piano

One of my favourite jazzmusicians czech born swede Georg Riedel has just passed away. He has filled my life with so much joy, inspiration, amusement, soothing, surprises and a feeling of his music helped me to recognize myself. He is the master of music from the soul.

A fool with some good karma

This blog actually started in 2011 as my little freetime in a very busy dailylife as a fulltime singlemother, with fulltime work and a lot of designprojects in my own company next to my work, which was very busy. My blog Aviajaspace as the name say was my space and time in the evening, after I had put my small children to sleep, a time where I could inspire myself and others with my interest’ without leaving home, an hour or two where I were connecting with parts I missed in my life and myself. It was so helpful and I have really enjoyed all those hours of writing.

What were my interest’ in the start?

Creativity, design, jazzmusic, writing poetry, colors, food and cooking, Greenland (part of my culture), art, meditation, needlework, nature, photos and probably other things I have forgotten about since I have changed over the years and my interest’ have changed or should I say deepened. Because a lot of the interest’ mentioned above are still the same, some are just more prominent in my life. If you have asked me 13 years ago what I would spend my time with in 2024, I don’t think I would have answered taking another round with being my own boss without safety net, facing a lot of fear and establishing courage to create my third career in my life (my first career was within tourism, second design and now being a spiritual advisor). 

The past four years after we moved to Denmark from Greenland have been a very transformative period, going from a very busy life as a professional interiordesigner, living in a lovely house with a stunning view over the ocean, being blessed with highend clients within the corporate world, earning a good amount of money and in many ways being very succesful.

I was supposed to be where I was those years, in my favourite country, Greenland, with my favourite people, my children and creating a lot of beautiful good design, through a period of time where me and my family needed stability and was rooted one place. But I am a nomad of heart or just not able to settle one place.

I remember the change, the pull towards wanting to change my world, trying something new, without not really knowing my new path. And I know myself, when that pull starts, its like a rolling snowball at the top of the hill, growing bigger and moving faster, until I have to take action on it or life will create circumstances that push me to change my world. This time I took action.

One night November 2018 where I couldnt sleep I re-read a book by the healer Alberto Villoldo, I dont even remember the title, I just knew that I had to check him out. At his homepage I saw he had a month long residential program in California starting February 2018, and it felt so right for me, that I in that moment decided to manifest the conditions for me to participate the programme. (manifesting enough money for the very expensive program, travels for me and my family, living expences for 3 months where I was not working, nearly 5 weeks of programme, 4 weeks of holiday with my children and another month where I was back and working to earn money, and then of course finding someone who would live with my children for a short amount of time before they were travelling themselves to different destinations and eventually meeting up with me in Denmark). 

What a logistic, what a manifestation, nevertheless I was pretty consistent in my thought about it becoming my reality. And a couple of weeks after this decision I recieved some business calls with two HUGE designprojects which had to be done immediately, which meant I could raise the cost’ and the money were covering those 3 months ahead. 

That was the start of my big transformational period, ending my design career, moving country, starting a new career as a spiritual advisor and of course helping my two girls to integrate themselves in another culture in some important years being teenagers.

Looking back at the past four years, I must admit Im glad I didnt know what was laying ahead, then I am pretty sure I havent thrown myself and my girls on our turbulent quest.

Me on my quest, “The Fool” from the tarotdeck The good karma Tarot by Kerry Ward

Four years of rocky roads, a lot of moving, change of direction, so little money, Covid time (which we all know was about), feeling soooo lost, digging deep and trying to understand that change of identity is a big loss of yourself for a period of time before you find a new identity or are able to accept and live with different circumstances you havent imagined.

The four years has also been a course in a non-linear journey, letting go of all I have know and how to percieve life, in listening to my inner voice, meeting new people and creating a new network out in the big world, walking new spiritual pathways, besides my healing, adding psychic, mediumship and spiritual assessment to my services.

Trust have been a big part of my journey and probably the most difficult one for me because I have tried to view my life from the old way of thinking and living. I have felt stepping backwards more than forward, rollercoaster after rollercoaster of expansion and contraction, trust and fears at once, anchoring my soul my light and allowing it more and more next to so many shadows and old stuff rising.

So besides feeling low and lost in many periods, it has been and is actually a steady stream of my soul nudging me towards my new direction and a lot of unknown and uncertainty. The part where you have to lean more and more in to uncertainty and meanwhile becoming yourself has for me been a very exciting journey, much needed and a huge lesson in surrendering.

In 7 weeks Im having a blank sheet in front of me, no outside boss, no income, a lot of ideas and intentions about what to create and start and at the same time some inner work letting go of control, trusting that my soul have helped me to this moment.

From our livingroom, some snow, a helping orb and light above us, my process for the moment. Video made by my eldest daughter Anouk.

Retreat time

For the first time in many many years as a full time singlemother I soon have the possebility to take some time off on my own. No travelling, no courses or educations (I already follow one 7- week course for the moment, and have 2 mentors and an advisor following me), this time I will stay at home, alone (my cat will be around) and I will use my 7-10 days on a personal meditation retreat.

The intention of my retreat is to sit in silence, go inward, create a deeper connection with my soul and nurture my inner stillness. My days will be spent with meditation, talk with my spirits, yoga, walks in nature, silence and no talking or contact with other people, no social media, phones, wifi, tv and so on, eating healthy, study, rest, just solitude, except for our cat.

So I have some planning beforehand. Cleaning, grocery, meal prepping, laundry, perhaps buy some treats, so when my retreat start at home I can fully focus on my meditation.

I have made several meditation retreats different places in the world. I did a buddhistic one in France many years ago, 1 month of meditation in deep silence (supposed to be in silence, but I was not able to be silent a whole month “LOL” ), but I think I am able to be silent for 7-10 days when I start next week.

I can really recommend it, going inward, listen to your inner voice, sit with yourself, and feel whatever comes up, so you can create more space inside of yourself.The first period you usually feel that you are very tired, then you feel restless because youre not stimulated by the outside world, and then you feel feelings and unsolved issues arising from deep down which havent been taken care of….

At some point you will feel the inner PEACE, more inner SPACE, more JOY and LOVE for yourself and the world…at that time you are more able to be in the PRESENT MOMENT….I really look forward to my mini retreat, and will make another month long retreat when it is possible – I will write about it in some weeks.

The following photos are from my 1 month long silent buddhistic retreat I did in Mas Marvent in France at Dechen Chöling together with 65 other people from around the world.

Soul to Soul connection

For those of you interested in mediumship read below.

Me

Within some weeks I will offer mediumship – 30 and 60min. Have a look at my services and please feel free to contact me 🙏🏻

You can find me here : Inualife

A photo I took some years ago

I am quite flexible timewise concerning those of you living in other timezones – United States and Asia and other lovely places in our beautiful world – I can easily offer mediumship in my evenings and mornings so it fits you in your daily life.

As a medium I do my best to connect and communicate with your loved ones on the other side of the veil – so you experience and feel it yourself – evidence is of course an important part of the sitting, but also from time to time advices for you and a great deal of healing.

Having a sitting can be an experience of joy, humour, connecting with long forgotten memories, new information, forgiveness and healing but most of all connecting with your loved ones on the other side of the veil is a knowing that they always is around and wants us to feel their presence, signs and love ❤️

I look forward to meet you and communicate with your loved ones ✨

Love Aviâja,
Energymedicine healer and Healthcoach
Medium and Clairvoyant
Professional interiordesigner

Those of you from everywhere 🙏🏻 I already have met and given a sitting – I look forward to connect again.

Besides mediumship I also offer Energymedicine healing, clairvoyance and other modalities and of course all kind of design – especially within design.

Have a look at my page – there is a lot of soul stuff and of course most of my own photos. ❤️ Aviâja

…Remembering…

who you were before the World got its hands on you, what a nice qoute by Bruce Lipton, and very much what is going on this period. Currently Im empowering and nourishing my spiritual self. All these years with “ordinary” work with a lot of wonderful creative work, design work, priviliged work where I have used my intuition and helped my customers finding their space identity or their soul in a project. During that time I have missed connecting even deeper with the soul within and connecting the inner an outer space.

Now is the time. So my dailylife circle around a lot of meditation, spirit talk, developing more specialized mediumskills, having a small amount of remote clients and just listening within….appreaciating my own preferences and helping my own colour to shine stronger…

Me 🙂

WHO AM I? Be your own colour, ask yourself what kind of joy do you prefer? what makes you laugh? create more space – inner as outer space, does your body need anything? deep in your heart you have tons of creativity, courage, love and you are much bigger than your circumstances…..what are your deepest desires? visualize your future self and keep nourishing your soul….. skip the people pleaser part , feeling your emotions and loving and being YOU is an inside job – that is the path to an authentic life and heart … ❤️

things done in a weekend

This weekend – here and there – Aarhus, Ribe, Vester Vedsted, and in between…below what I captured – the rest is in my heart and mind together with my loved ones ❤

Beaches, ocean, forrest, lovely kids and animals, a lot of driving in Denmark, nice familytime, museums, countryside, delicious food, warm weather, interesting history, georgeous windows and doors, piercing time, vineyard, plants and flowers, heaven and earth, treasures found, clothline put up in the garden….and so much more…

The ferry from Jutland to Sealand
Vadehavscentret – The gate to Unesco world heritage
The Eternity bridge – Aarhus
Art museum Aros – the Rainbow at the top this morning
The new area in Aarhus

Healing powers

We were actually at the beach today but forgot to take photos – the weather is so warm in Aarhus – so having some hours in the sun, relaxing and having short dips in the water was good for the soul after half year of being busy…doing absolutely nothing besides finding nice stones with wholes – talking a little, looking at the animals… listening to the ocean –

On our way home we walked in the forest next to the ocean, that was healing and inspiring – the light – the beautiful glimses of the ocean – the wonderful landscape of our local forest Marselisborg and felt so lucky and thankful to live this beautiful and peaceful place –

My girls took some photos on our way home – eating a little berries …

The ocean

Remembering FAN

Master photographer, film director and actor Fan Ho ( Born 8th of october 1931Shanghai China, Died 19th of June 2016 San Jose, California, Usa) have created phenomenal photos from the streets of China. His photos are like great chinese poetry…full of soul. He believed in art creation was to try anything…No limits. Making all forms of art. Then he was good at mixing old and new….have a look at these beautiful and sublime composed photos….and a little interview with him….

Soulwork + Design

The last period have been busy preparing my new holistic business, have a look, like me or work with me, you find me here INUALIFE (it needs at little extra work…) or find me on facebook/inualife which is ready done with al my services.

I’m moved by the authenticity, honesty, sharing and realness that occurs in sessions. It’s a joy and privilege to participate in another humans unfolding and transformation. I love my work, and enjoy that my passion for interior, design, spirituality, communication, creativity and play has now found its form in togetherness….

It like opening a door to a secret room and make it visible and help it get alive in the best form.